I'm reading The Courage to Heal right now. I have to take it in small pieces. I don't remember when my hymen was broke. I'm pretty sure Michael didn't do it. And that was at 7. We had been away from my dad for a while at that point. I'm pretty sure that means my hymen was broken before I was 6 years old.
No wonder I've never identified with innocence lost movies. I've never had innocence.