Noah recently discovered that we have money in an HSA we forgot about. Woo. That means I all of a sudden have money in the medical section. I think I am going to call my former therapist and say I am ready for a referral now.
What I am doing right now isn't working for me. That means I need to figure out how to change it. I'm not very good at doing that by myself. That's ok. There are professionals for this shit. This is why I have been in therapy for decades and I probably will be for most of my life. Even though I feel ashamed of myself for that. My therapists are the most stable friendships I have. I need mirrors. I don't seem to be able to construct a mirror with sufficient intensity any other way. I have to pay someone to pay attention to me before I believe that they will actually do so week after week.
I feel really pathetic. I also feel really suicidal. It's time to call for a referral. I'm not managing on my own right now.
I really hate me.